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Sermon Introduction

The Song of Solomon, also known as the Song of Songs, is traditionally believed to be the work of King Solomon. However, an alternative viewpoint relates to another author or curator whose work reflected Solomonic wisdom. Traditionally, the book was treated as a united work, but another viewpoint is that it is an anthology, a collection of poems arranged to reflect a story. The poetic structure involves romantic dialogue and is full of symbols and imagery.

The central theme is romantic love, which makes some wonder about its inclusion in the sacred text. From a Jewish standpoint, it is seen as an allegory of God's affection for Israel and, in Christian thought, as a depiction of Christ's love for the Church. Despite the absence of direct references to God, its presence in the Holy Scriptures implies a recognition that romantic love is celebrated, provided it aligns with the broader scriptural context. Believers must celebrate romantic love within marriage, the most sacred of all relationships after God.

Ed Pilapil Jr.
Senior Pastor

Song of Solomon 8:4

4 I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases.

Notes

The Song of Solomon, also known as the Song of Songs, is traditionally believed to be the work of King Solomon. However, an alternative viewpoint relates to another author or curator whose work reflected Solomonic wisdom. Traditionally, the book was treated as a united work, but another viewpoint is that it is an anthology, a collection of poems arranged to reflect a story. The poetic structure involves romantic dialogue and is full of symbols and imagery.

The central theme is romantic love, which makes some wonder about its inclusion in the sacred text. From a Jewish standpoint, it is seen as an allegory of God's affection for Israel and, in Christian thought, as a depiction of Christ's love for the Church. Despite the absence of direct references to God, its presence in the Holy Scriptures implies a recognition that romantic love is celebrated, provided it aligns with the broader scriptural context. Believers must celebrate romantic love within marriage, the most sacred of all relationships after God.

1. Daughters

   The poem calls for the daughters of Jerusalem, the future wives and mothers of the nation. But it is not a simple appeal but a significant charge. It is a mandate, and those who read it must not take the message lightly. Instead, they should treat it with utmost importance.

   
   4 I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases (Song of Solomon 8:4).

2. Patience

   Though it might go against their inquisitive nature and emotional inclinations, the daughters of Jerusalem must resist urges that hasten romantic love’s development. But even if the urge is strong, they must remember the charge. It would need emotional discipline.

   4 I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases (Song of Solomon 8:4).

3. Timing

   Young women may wonder about the appropriate time to awaken romantic love. The poem does not specify the details, but one should assume that wisdom should be significant. After all, the poem is in the style of Solomon. However, it should be done cautiously because love can be dangerous and should not be played with.

   
   4 I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases (Song of Solomon 8:4).

Application

1. Celebrate Romance in Marriage

   The family is primarily believed to be the basic unit of society, yet one may argue that it is marriage. God designed marriage to be a union between husband and wife, which includes the benefits of romantic love. Therefore, we should celebrate romantic love that leads to marriage. Romantic love with no intent to marry is not encouraged.

2. Ladies Should Remain Patient & Cautious

   Young women should be patient with God’s will in matters of the heart. Our daughters must recognize the potential perils accompanying romantic love when its season has not yet arrived. Furthermore, they must heed the mandate to avoid hastily pursuing romantic relationships before the appropriate time.

3. Create a Supportive Culture

   The church community must create a culture of celebrating romantic love and marriage, yet also shape a culture that fosters godly friendships coupled with restraint. The young men must conduct themselves in a way that does not provoke romantic love but projects patience.

Reflection & Discussion

1. What is the charge to the daughters of Jerusalem?

2. How should single women apply this in today’s world?

3. How can the members of the church community provide support?